When I was single, I was a complete social butterfly. In fact, some of my most “healthy” outgoing times were here in Charlotte, NC. I attended a church that I loved and had a great circle of friends. We would spend Friday nights at our favorite “spoken word” spot. We met often for potlucks and wine. We went indoor rock climbing and race car driving. We did life together and it was wonderful but deep down, I wanted to be married and start a family.